Coffee Clash: Who will remember me when I am gone?
Why do so many people seem to be opting out of having a funeral or memorial service? Sometimes the person decides before they die, sometimes the family decides after. Some people leave elaborate plans for their service, and some people say they don't want any notice taken. Why? Is it just too hard to organize when a family is grieving? But, if there is no service, how do friends and the community express their feelings about the person and about their loss?
